Jai Jai Jai Shri Mataji

Since coming into Sahaja Yoga, I have always heard Shri Mataji spoke about being a Shakti.   The woman of the house ( gruhlaxmi) is the  shakti  o f the house. So in a way there should be a very deep oneness with her. When this gets disrupted then a woman leaves her wisdom and gets upset, and sometimes she can be like a bomb, will quarrel; by this a bad influence comes on the children and the society starts breaking. When society breaks then the children will break. All wrong things will come into them and they will go astray. And the discipline of the home gets spoiled. In the house where there is no discipline the children get ruined, the society gets ruined. - Excerpt from   New Year's Eve Puja 1997 If she quarrels and argues with everyone then she is not a  shakti .  Shakti  means that you can integrate with everything. The highest. Whatever happens you are above it all. Then you are the  Shakti , but if you got suppressed then you are not the  shakti . - Excerpt from 

I wanted to write this on FB but thought no.  While I will get some supporters, I am sure some parents will also be very against me too. I don't intend to be a Tiger Mom.  And I am telling only what I have gone through at work. I have this subordinate, who is 31 years old this year.  Single and have few years working experience in the Big 4.  Father is a respectable man in the industry.   Although Mr.A has working experience, he doesn't prove himself to be so.  He can't perform simple Excel function.  He can't finish his task on time.  He will promise the manager that he will do this and that, but in the end he can't deliver his promise.  If you don't tell him what to do, he will not do it.  When he didn't deliver his task to me on time, he doesn't even update me the status.  Instead, I have to keep on reminding him over and over again.  Someone needs to sit next to him and guide him step by step, as if holding his hand while he walk. I